Dr. Reena Sommer, Ph.D. approaches the subject not from the perspective of apportioning blame but rather to try and understand why it happened and what to do about it.
As the title The Anatomy of an Affair suggests this is an analytical scientific approach to separating and understanding the different building blocks that culminate in an affair.
Not all affairs are premeditated. In fact most married individuals probably don’t set out to have an affair and many would not conceive of themselves as potential contributors to marriage infidelity statistics and all things being equal they probably never would. But life is no bed of roses and doesn’t always go according to plan. We all make mistakes in life and often the lessons learnt from them make us better individuals.
| This guide provides a thorough understanding of the dynamics of affairs and how and why they develop. Despite ones thinking to the contrary affairs are usually rooted in discontent at some level with the present setup and both partners need to fundamentally accept this fact before it is possible to begin moving on. Usually affairs are symptomatic of a relationship gone wrong rather than the cause. The potential for affairs is lurking round every corner. Trying to shield your partner from potential affairs is a bit like trying to control internet access for your kids. If they are sufficiently motivated it will probably happen regardless. However learning “how to affair-proof your relationship” and being able to identify a relationship in trouble is within your control and is ample reason to read this guide. It’s easy to speculate on what might happen in the event of your marriage gaining an attachment; it’s another thing entirely to confront reality when it happens. This guide deals with how one goes about doing this. It provides no judgment on whether to go or stay – that’s for you personally to figure out once you know the possibilities. If you are already in this unenviable position or think you might be heading there Dr Sommer’s expert experience in The Anatomy of an Affair guide provides the knowledge necessary to make an informed decision. | 
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Who is Dr. Reena Sommer?  |
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| A renowned divorce and relationships coach. Marriage divorce needs help and input from two major directions. There is the nuts and bolts legal side to disengaging from a partnership which is the domain of lawyers but there is also arguably the more important aspect of emotional help which is where Dr Sommer fits in. “A problem shared is a problem halved” and when it comes to marital disharmony talking is a wonderful healer especially in an environment where you can safely vent your emotions with someone trained to manage the situation and prepare you emotionally to make informed decisions. Dr Sommer is the ideal author for The Anatomy of an Affair. Click here to visit The Truth About Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs. |
